this changed me 

1) Learn to put on your bracelets and zip up your dresses by yourself. There will be times when you will be alone.<br>
2) Get on a long plane ride. Look out the window. Understand the immensity of our world. Understand your insignificance. Understand your absolute importance.<br>
3) Press the send button. If you don’t say it now, you never will.<br>
4) Do not sneer at happiness or roll your eyes at sadness. Be aware that apathy is not healthy.<br>
5) You are more than the amount of people who want to have sex with you.<br>
6) That pit in your stomach when he doesn’t text you back, it shouldn’t be there. No one should be able to control you like that.<br>
7) Shopping is cathartic. Buy the shoes and deal with one-ply toilet paper for a while.<br>
8) It will get better, but it will never be perfect. Learn to live through the small moments of happiness. When they disappear, remember they will resurface.<br>
9) I promise that cookie will not change anything (except that it will make you smile).<br>
10) Please, please, take care of yourself. You are everything to somebody. You are everything to your self. That alone is enough.
things to remember, -n.m. (via thegirlwithfernweh)